SO YOU THINK YOU WANT TO BE A MALE ESCORT?
If I had a pound for every time I had heard that one I’d be a millionaire!
Why are men far more likely to want to go on the game than women? Most men would even give it away if their client was attractive enough.
I think the world is like this:
If a huge fat smelly wrinkly woman laid down in a busy club and shouted:
‘Somebody fuck-me!’
Some man would!
If a man of the same description laid down and shouted it, the only reaction he might get (apart from laughter) would be from the other men who would assume he meant kick my head in!
That’s because men view sex so differently to women.
Mostly but not always, men compartmentalise their lives – separating everything. Most women see sex as either part of a loving relationship. (Or most recently for fun!)
Most men see it as an obsessive sport, collecting trophies and scoring goals.
Men don’t usually treat monogamy the same way that women do they section off areas of their lives – ‘it was just a shag it didn’t mean anything, I still love my wife’
O.K so the balance is starting to even up a bit and attitudes to women’s sexuality is changing but one fact remains;
Men are far less choosy when it comes to who they have sex with, why is this?
(If you don’t take my word for it read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus)
Men would also give it away! I’ve met so many, who said they would do it as much for the sex as they would for the money - yet most hookers I have met said they did it purely or at least mainly for the cash. If the market for straight men selling to straight women suddenly exploded in this country, for every man selling there would be another not far behind giving it away!
WHO IS BUYING AND WHO IS SELLING SEX?
FOR A START OFF ONLY 15% OF THE BRITISH POPULATION HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX.
The biggest section of the market is: Straight women - selling to straight men
The next biggest is: gay/bi men selling to gay/bi men.
If sections were portions of a pie you would have got 3/4 of the way around before you meet a woman who is paying!
Even a woman paying for a WOMAN beats women paying for a man!
It seems a lot of women these days are bi-curious and want to experiment with an attractive bisexual woman (rarely an arrangement between lesbians).
The next sectors mostly involve transactions where couples pay for another woman or a couple.
The smallest section of all is the one where a woman or a couple pays for a man.
Personally I’d be surprised if men selling to women, made up any more than 1% of the entire market!
STILL WANT A CRACK AT IT?
Then ask yourself these three questions…
In a market place where there are lots of other people offering the same service, could you honestly compete?
1. What would be my USP? (Unique selling proposition - that bit of something different that no one else can offer).
2. Am I: Smart, fit, intelligent, witty, charismatic, sensitive, excellent company, adventurous and sexy enough?
3. Do I really know how to please ANY woman - and can I?
Male escorts have to offer more than female escorts, because women want different things.
It’s not all about sex for women.
If you didn’t realise that - you’ve already failed the aptitude test!